How many people must we come in to contact with throughout our lives? How many of those actually stay in our life? How many of those actually make an impact, a life changing difference?
Like the tide, the ebb, the flow, people come & go…It’s all part of life….I believe we meet people for a reason. This can be to learn, to guide, to advise, to grow, to share knowledge. Whichever one it may be, embrace it.
I stupidly assumed normal work would return after my treatment, how feckin’ wrong was i. Still tired ,fatigued, at my wits end, feeling crap that i wasn’t adding to the pot. I am a grafter always have been, sitting still isn’t an easy task for me. So don’t ever bother asking me to do a sponsored SIT STILL, i would rather just donate, so think on!!!!! Going back to work was the only option i felt that we had. It was never going to be forever, i am sure i could put up with all the negatives till we got back on our feet financially………”Life is all about CHOICES…CHOOSE wisely”
My life was just about to take a turn, a new way of thinking was in motion, a more spiritual approach to life, to learn the “Art of Being,” i want such a simple life, to be able to breathe with nature, to live in the now.
Strapped for cash i was fortunate enough to still be in contact with an old school friend who happened to be looking for a P/T Cleaner…I could choose my hours so thought what the hell, we could do with the extra money. I was only there for a few weeks due to an emergency spinal operation however, during that time Julie the “Boss” asked me to join her at an address way up in the hills, my old stomping ground whilst attending Garstang High school.
Following instruction i drove down a single track up to some electric gates, a stunning home in a stunning location. I reckon i had been in the house no more than 90 minutes before myself & Lisa (The homeowner) were introduced. In that time i had bleached and scrubbed her home included the loo. Julie had mentioned earlier on that day that Lisa had a passion for CBD, Hemp products and helping others. This was music to my ears. Cannabis is a massive part of my life and always has been. It is such a versatile material…i could go on but that’s a number of other blogs yet to be published. Back to the story….
I knocked on the office door, greeted by a slim petite frame, what i can only describe as a pink lady…Pink Lycra, blonde hair, matching pink lipstick. This woman looked better after a 5 mile run than i did on a night out out…
How the hell does she look so good?
Meet Lisa, a vegetarian, an extremely successful business woman, exercise junkie, a woman with a huge heart taking CBD supplements.
Chat chat chatting away, conversation just flowed.We had so much in common, same age, a parent suffering Alzheimer’s/ Vascular Dementia, a passion for Hemp CBD oils, holistic therapies…blah blah blah
But it was the vision we shared that created the bond we have today.
Lisa introduced me to “My daily Choice” & “Hempworx” products. I was so in love with them that i signed up as an affiliate becoming one of Lisa’s team mates. I began building a team, “LOCKDOWN” arrived, all was going really really well. BOOM!!! Like being hit by a bus, anxiety levels through the roof, doing too much again, not being able to say no. When was i ever going to fucking learn? Its “Now or Never.” I grabbed my big knickers, pulled them right up, whilst having a “Do not come near me” plaque swinging around my neck. I wanted peace, nature, inner peace, surely there must be another way of doing what i love without the added stress. It was at this point i hibernated, took myself off to heal, started writing, thinking, developing. Six months later i have a much more relaxed approach to my business, long gone are the days of pushing, selling, pressure. My new way isn’t perfect by a long shot but it has improved so much. I say “No”much more nowadays, i try harder to live in the now, the rewards are priceless, more than any amount you put in to my back account. I already feel rich in so may ways.
My relationship with Lisa has evolved not just as friends, oh no no no, as business partners, “No, we don’t own a business together, (never say never) we just work well together. This online net marketing business as given us a platform to evolve from, other avenues have opened up more people have entered my life, more people have entered Lisa’s life. I am confident that this is the beginning of something spectacular. Be open to change, that is something i have always struggled with till recently, until i realised how many more opportunities became available. I no longer have a team, you see its about happiness within, do what makes you happy, everyone’s journey is different.
In the past week, Lisa with her team of professionals have invited me to be a part of their RMHC charity fundraising Team for the virtual event in November. Already i am discussing new things with new contacts, creating my own little ventures alongside our joint projects…
The point i am tying to make here is, people come in to your life, you weave in and out of others lives too. If an a opportunity arises, grab the bastard with both hands, we never know where our paths will take us sometimes. I cannot believe how much meeting Lisa is continuously changing me as a person, my direction in life too which is very exciting. This is a joint effort, we need each other, we use each others resources, in a respectful manner, not in an abusive piss taking manner!!!! Remember that!!!
Here’s to an amazing future together……”Move over Thelma i’m coming with you” xxx
